Post by yogurtfresh on Dec 18, 2006 11:08:00 GMT -5
well first off you need to find your girl, dont worry if she allready has a boyfreind these are early days and if you manage to get a girl (or in some cases steal one) then even if she dumps you you know you have the potential to get a partner. and my guide is to help you lonley hearts get a girl. i will couler code it so its not boring.
now some people develop a natural aura of appeal about them, they feel comfetable with girls and girls feel comfertable around
them. but even if you are one of those people its still hard to actually get them to nooticce you without looking like an idiot.
first of all therse a risky manouver, going for the catch WITH freinds, but its essential to even have a chance of getting a girl.
this is risky because even though its an easy way to get attention, if it doesnt go well then the girl may end up falling for a freind instead of you.
first of you sould be talking with atleast 2 other people. first get into a discussion with them, then when you see the one you want move towards them BUT DONT TOUCH OR GET TO CLOSE!!!
afterall we dont want to be a perv now do we.
nowmake a huge gesture, shout out you dissagreement or somthing ut dont be too agressive, scary aint attractive. now according to the diffinitive book of body language by allan and barbara pease the human mind is ever expanding, thus naturaly will evesdrop, so your partner will subconciously be listening to your conversation and will be more likly to react when you make your gesture if your closer to them.
if or when she looks at you look back and smile (women dont like guys who dont care) this is a manuver to get you familier, accuainted but familiar, so now she knows you exist.
now this is the next move, you can skip the last one if your confident enough but remember getting a girl isnt a 5 minute procedure, it takes at least a week, remember girls travel in packs so this next step is focused on catching her alone, it IS possible whatever anyone tells you.
there are two places were girls go alone the locker room and just after school. when you get her alone dont go running up all 'hey how ya doing' you dont know her enough to say that yet. small talk about 10 seconds after getting near to her, remember to look busy. naturally she'll have to talk back, so this is a good ground breaking performence to star becoming freinds. buy doing this you may het access to her freinds and buy making freinds with her freinds and family means you can avoid relationship breaking statments like 'oh yeah her! the fat one with the hair!' because nomatter how great you think ou are your not the only important person in her life and disrespecting them like not knowing there name or somthing could get you out of the picture for good. and if you do mess up by making her sad, having a freind on the inside is bound to help you out, so her freinds must be your freinds to.
from there one a relationship will build natuarally, so move in for the 'what are you doing after school/work?'
and go do somthing with her out of school or whatnot so the burden of educational responsibiliy isnt staring you in the face intead of you beloved one. if you manage to hold hands you getting somewere and your pretty much at the peak of the hill when you have acces to putting your arm around her waist, remember having you have t high says 'just freinds' but too low says 'i'm in it for the booty' so remember that its the waist not the hip.
from then on youve got yourself a pretty decent close freind relationship going on. when you or she is about to leave, if the girl starts to fondle her keys or somthing like that, she wants to kiss, only come in for 90% percent of the kiss, then let her kiss you.
if you want tips on how to become the perfect boyfreind then pm me.
and here are some tips to help you through those previous steps. thats right the
[glow=red,2,300][shadow=purple,left,300]top six tips on attractive body language!!![/shadow][/glow]
1. have an animated face, smile alot (dont grin its stupid) remember to keep teeth well cleaned and flash them every once in a while
2.be expressive but never overdoo it, keep fingers closed and keep your arms below your shoulders, thisll make you seem less boring but not aggressive.
3. use tripple nod when talking and the head tilt when listening, keep your chin up!
4.gie the ammount of eye contact that makes everyone feel comfortable, and everyone has pesonal space, when moving toward her dont stop till she moves back, this means that your in the perfect stop for talking, and the closer she lets you come the better
5. subtly mirror the body language of others.
6.lean forword while listening and stand straight when speaking.
now some people develop a natural aura of appeal about them, they feel comfetable with girls and girls feel comfertable around
them. but even if you are one of those people its still hard to actually get them to nooticce you without looking like an idiot.
first of all therse a risky manouver, going for the catch WITH freinds, but its essential to even have a chance of getting a girl.
this is risky because even though its an easy way to get attention, if it doesnt go well then the girl may end up falling for a freind instead of you.
first of you sould be talking with atleast 2 other people. first get into a discussion with them, then when you see the one you want move towards them BUT DONT TOUCH OR GET TO CLOSE!!!
afterall we dont want to be a perv now do we.
nowmake a huge gesture, shout out you dissagreement or somthing ut dont be too agressive, scary aint attractive. now according to the diffinitive book of body language by allan and barbara pease the human mind is ever expanding, thus naturaly will evesdrop, so your partner will subconciously be listening to your conversation and will be more likly to react when you make your gesture if your closer to them.
if or when she looks at you look back and smile (women dont like guys who dont care) this is a manuver to get you familier, accuainted but familiar, so now she knows you exist.
now this is the next move, you can skip the last one if your confident enough but remember getting a girl isnt a 5 minute procedure, it takes at least a week, remember girls travel in packs so this next step is focused on catching her alone, it IS possible whatever anyone tells you.
there are two places were girls go alone the locker room and just after school. when you get her alone dont go running up all 'hey how ya doing' you dont know her enough to say that yet. small talk about 10 seconds after getting near to her, remember to look busy. naturally she'll have to talk back, so this is a good ground breaking performence to star becoming freinds. buy doing this you may het access to her freinds and buy making freinds with her freinds and family means you can avoid relationship breaking statments like 'oh yeah her! the fat one with the hair!' because nomatter how great you think ou are your not the only important person in her life and disrespecting them like not knowing there name or somthing could get you out of the picture for good. and if you do mess up by making her sad, having a freind on the inside is bound to help you out, so her freinds must be your freinds to.
from there one a relationship will build natuarally, so move in for the 'what are you doing after school/work?'
and go do somthing with her out of school or whatnot so the burden of educational responsibiliy isnt staring you in the face intead of you beloved one. if you manage to hold hands you getting somewere and your pretty much at the peak of the hill when you have acces to putting your arm around her waist, remember having you have t high says 'just freinds' but too low says 'i'm in it for the booty' so remember that its the waist not the hip.
from then on youve got yourself a pretty decent close freind relationship going on. when you or she is about to leave, if the girl starts to fondle her keys or somthing like that, she wants to kiss, only come in for 90% percent of the kiss, then let her kiss you.
if you want tips on how to become the perfect boyfreind then pm me.
and here are some tips to help you through those previous steps. thats right the
[glow=red,2,300][shadow=purple,left,300]top six tips on attractive body language!!![/shadow][/glow]
1. have an animated face, smile alot (dont grin its stupid) remember to keep teeth well cleaned and flash them every once in a while
2.be expressive but never overdoo it, keep fingers closed and keep your arms below your shoulders, thisll make you seem less boring but not aggressive.
3. use tripple nod when talking and the head tilt when listening, keep your chin up!
4.gie the ammount of eye contact that makes everyone feel comfortable, and everyone has pesonal space, when moving toward her dont stop till she moves back, this means that your in the perfect stop for talking, and the closer she lets you come the better
5. subtly mirror the body language of others.
6.lean forword while listening and stand straight when speaking.